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Sunday 7 September, 2008
By  RAMESH   15:51 | 25/Jun/2008 |  2 Comment(s)
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FIVE LESSONS

 

FIVE IMPORTANT LESSONS

1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.

 During my second month of college, our professor
 gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student
 and had breezed through the questions until I read
 the last one:

 'What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?'

 Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the
 cleaning woman several times. She was tall,
 dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?

 I handed in my paper, leaving the last question
 blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if
 the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

 'Absolutely,' said the professor. 'In your careers,
 you will meet many people. All are significant. They
 deserve your attention and care, even if all you do
 is smile and say 'hello.'

 I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her
 name was Dorothy.


 2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain

 One night, at 11:30 p.m., an elderly African-American
 woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway
 trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had
 broken down and she desperately needed a ride.
 Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.
 A young white man stopped to help her, generally
 unheard of in those conflict-filled 60s.. The man
 took her to safety, helped her get assistance and
 put her into a taxicab.

 She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his
 address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a
 knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a
 giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A
 special note was attached..

 It read:
 'Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway
 the other night. The rain drenched not only my
 clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.
 Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying
 husband's bedside just before he passed away... God
 bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving
 others.'

 Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.


 3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve.

 In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,
 a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and
 sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.

 'How much is an ice cream sundae?' he asked.

 'Fifty cents,' replied the waitress.

 The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and
 studied the coins in it.

 'Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?' he inquired.

 By now more people were waiting for a table and the
 waitress was growing impatient.

 'Thirty-five cents,' she brusquely replied.

 The little boy again counted his coins.

 'I'll have the plain ice cream,' he said.

 The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on
 the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice
 cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress
 came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the
 table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,
 were two nickels and five pennies..

 You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had
 to have enough left to leave her a tip.


 4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.

 In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a
 roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if
 anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the
 king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by
 and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the
 King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did
 anything about getting the stone out of the way.

 Then a peasant came along carrying a load of
 vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the
 peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the
 stone to the side of the road. After much pushing
 and straining, he finally succeeded. After the
 peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed
 a purse lying in the road where the boulder had
 been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note
 from the King indicating that the gold was for the
 person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The
 peasant learned what many of us never understand!

 Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.


 5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...

 Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a
 hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who
 was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only
 chance of recovery appeared to be a blood
 transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had
 miraculously survived the same disease and had
 developed the antibodies needed to combat the
 illness. The doctor explained the situation to her
 little brother, and asked the little boy if he would
 be willing to give his blood to his sister.

 I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a
 deep breath and saying, 'Yes I'll do it if it will
 save her.' As the transfusion progressed, he lay in
 bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did,
 seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his
 face grew pale and his smile faded.

 He looked up at the doctor and asked with a
 trembling voice, 'Will I start to die right away'.

 Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the
 doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his
 sister all of his blood in order to save her.
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'Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, and
 dance like you do when nobody's watching.'

--------------------------------------- GOD IS GREAT OF ALL!!------------------------------------

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